The Magic of Growing Up in India During the 80s
There’s something about the 80s that makes every Indian who
lived through it smile. It was a time untouched by the frenzy of technology, a
slower pace of life where joy wasn’t found in things, but in moments. The
childhood of an 80s kid was beautifully simple, full of laughter, mischief, and
connections that felt as deep as they were real.
Let’s take a heartfelt walk down memory lane to a world
where life was lived, not scrolled.
Mornings Filled with Warmth
Do you remember waking up to the gentle clatter of utensils
in the kitchen, the aroma of steaming chai wafting through the air, and the
soft, comforting hum of Vividh Bharati playing in the background?
Breakfast was simple yet hearty—fluffy hot parathas or buttered bread, often
accompanied by a side of mom’s loving scoldings for taking too long to get
ready for school.
The day truly began with the long bus ride to school—a
journey that was never boring. It was filled with laughter, chatter, and the
joy of meeting classmates and friends, turning every morning into a little
adventure before the bell even rang.
Sunday mornings were special. The streets were quieter, and
homes were alive with the sound of Rangoli, Jungle Book, Duck Tales, Street
hawk, Malgudi Days or Ramayan on TV. Families gathered around
the only television in the neighborhood, and even the grainy screen couldn’t
dull the magic.
When Play Meant Getting Your Hands Dirty
Evenings belonged to the outdoors. Shoes were flung off, and
the playground became a world of endless adventures. Football, Cricket,Lagori,
kho-kho, and gilli-danda didn’t need fancy equipment—just
creativity and an army of excited kids.
Summer vacations meant climbing guava trees, scraping knees,
and tasting the sweet reward of stolen mangoes from the neighbor’s garden.
There were no virtual trophies, but the thrill of a well-fought game or a kite
flying higher than the rest was enough to fill hearts with pride.
The TV That Brought Us Together
Television wasn’t just a device; it was an event. With only
one channel—Doordarshan—every show became a shared experience. Families bonded
over Chitrahaar’s melodious songs, cheered for Kapil Dev’s team
during cricket matches, and shed tears together during Buniyaad.
Even the “Rukawat ke liye khed hai” interruptions couldn’t
dampen the excitement. If anything, they gave us time to fetch more namkeen
or settle petty squabbles over who got the best spot to sit.
Going to the market wasn’t a chore; it was an adventure.
Kids tugged at their parents’ arms, pointing excitedly to colorful Poppins,
Big Babool, Chutki Imli, and packets of Uncle Chipps.
Bargaining wasn’t just a skill—it was an art form perfected by mothers, often
rewarded with an extra handful of coriander or a free toffee for the kids.
And then there were the melas. The sheer joy of
spinning on the giant wheel, munching on freshly spun cotton candy, or
clutching a cheap plastic toy that felt like treasure is something we still
carry in our hearts.
Festivals That Felt Like Home
Festivals in the 80s were pure magic. Diwali wasn’t about
expensive gifts but about lighting diyas together and bursting crackers
with cousins. Holi meant drenching each other in colors until it was hard to
recognize anyone, followed by feasting on gujiyas and delicious luncheons.
My favorite was and still is Jackfruit Curry(Kathal)
Every celebration was a community affair. Doors were always
open, sweets were exchanged with neighbors, and the joy of togetherness was the
greatest gift of all.
The Beauty of Boredom and Creativity
There was no internet to keep us busy, but boredom was never
a bad thing. It led to creativity. We devoured comic books like Nagraj,Super
Comando Dhruva, Chacha Chaudhary, and Amar Chitra Katha. We
folded paper boats to race in rain puddles and made secret codes for childhood
conspiracies.
Even something as simple as rewinding a cassette with a
pencil or pressing flowers between the pages of a book became an art form. Life
was slow, but it was rich.
Friendships That Felt Like Family
Friendships weren’t measured in likes or streaks—they were
built on trust, shared secrets, and countless hours spent together. Borrowing a
bicycle for a quick spin, sneaking out for a cycle race, or pooling pocket
money for a bottle of Gold Spot—these moments created bonds that time
could never erode.
Letters written on crumpled inland paper carried more
emotion than any WhatsApp message ever could. And when a friend moved away, the
tears were real, and the promises to stay in touch were heartfelt.
Lessons from a Simpler Time
The childhood of the 80s wasn’t perfect, but it was real. It
taught us the value of patience, the beauty of togetherness, and the joy of
simple pleasures. In a world where everything feels rushed, those slower days
remind us to pause, to cherish, and to truly live.
As we navigate modern life, perhaps we can bring back a
little of that magic—by putting down our phones, stepping outdoors, and
reconnecting with the people and moments that truly matter.
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